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term='cascada'/><category term='ben whishaw'/><category term='talky blog'/><category term='don&apos;t ask'/><category term='johnny cash'/><category term='sarah mclachlan'/><category term='playing for change'/><category term='5 on the fifth.'/><category term='Brit&apos;s'/><category term='cristiano ronaldo'/><category term='martyn joseph'/><category term='twitter'/><category term='entertainment'/><category term='bangles'/><category term='awards'/><category term='queen'/><category term='religion'/><category term='brighton'/><category term='tv. house'/><category term='I have never'/><category term='kiri te kanawa'/><category term='adverts'/><category term='film'/><category term='tom andrews'/><category term='health'/><category term='sarah cracknell'/><category term='drugs'/><category term='video blog'/><category term='money'/><title type='text'>Comments on Jason Shaw's Seafront Diary: Long Distance Relationship - fact or fiction?</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.seafrontdiary.com/feeds/72886104363911270/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1326593459474800213/72886104363911270/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.seafrontdiary.com/2009/09/long-distance-relationship-fact-or.html'/><author><name>jason shaw</name><uri>https://profiles.google.com/117891546008789561875</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh5.googleusercontent.com/-pnzmcT0-_1Q/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAEig/KyCefN58DAw/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>6</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1326593459474800213.post-6739109902007336141</id><published>2009-09-20T12:11:17.522+01:00</published><updated>2009-09-20T12:11:17.522+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Thank you Frances, James and Jon.   It&amp;#39;s great...</title><content type='html'>Thank you Frances, James and Jon.   It&amp;#39;s great having your views,  really do appreciate your time and comments.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1326593459474800213/72886104363911270/comments/default/6739109902007336141'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1326593459474800213/72886104363911270/comments/default/6739109902007336141'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.seafrontdiary.com/2009/09/long-distance-relationship-fact-or.html?showComment=1253445077522#c6739109902007336141' title=''/><author><name>Jason</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04097132229638807046</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='02927441105085735107'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_fbh-eMUyKZc/SpRN3yGtOJI/AAAAAAAACGQ/NFzLAOc7hOo/S220/me.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.seafrontdiary.com/2009/09/long-distance-relationship-fact-or.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1326593459474800213.post-72886104363911270' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1326593459474800213/posts/default/72886104363911270' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1016321136'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1326593459474800213.post-1723258221333008123</id><published>2009-09-18T21:18:17.460+01:00</published><updated>2009-09-18T21:18:17.460+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Food for thought, my dear. I had a (not quite so d...</title><content type='html'>Food for thought, my dear. I had a (not quite so distant) LDR with a boy from France who ended up leaving his home to join me, but it ended badly. [NB we are still friends now, but it took a lot of heartache]. Some may manage it (think of really long-term marriages among busy stars always on the move, like Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward or Coral Browne and Vincent Price, or more recent examples of longevity like Johnny Depp and Vanessa Paradis or Ewan McGregor and Eve Mavrakis), some people may not - the fates will decide in the end.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I wish you good luck, and hope it does work out for you! Jx&lt;br /&gt;  &lt;br /&gt;Posted by Jon on Wednesday, September 16, 2009 - 8:17 PM</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1326593459474800213/72886104363911270/comments/default/1723258221333008123'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1326593459474800213/72886104363911270/comments/default/1723258221333008123'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.seafrontdiary.com/2009/09/long-distance-relationship-fact-or.html?showComment=1253305097460#c1723258221333008123' title=''/><author><name>Jon</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.seafrontdiary.com/2009/09/long-distance-relationship-fact-or.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1326593459474800213.post-72886104363911270' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1326593459474800213/posts/default/72886104363911270' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-406263673'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1326593459474800213.post-859477991245185112</id><published>2009-09-18T19:28:50.936+01:00</published><updated>2009-09-18T19:28:50.936+01:00</updated><title type='text'>I love a love story and that sure is a love story ...</title><content type='html'>I love a love story and that sure is a love story **sigh&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Waving at you wildly from New York as always</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1326593459474800213/72886104363911270/comments/default/859477991245185112'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1326593459474800213/72886104363911270/comments/default/859477991245185112'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.seafrontdiary.com/2009/09/long-distance-relationship-fact-or.html?showComment=1253298530936#c859477991245185112' title=''/><author><name>Frances</name><uri>http://www.ablogcalled.me</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.seafrontdiary.com/2009/09/long-distance-relationship-fact-or.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1326593459474800213.post-72886104363911270' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1326593459474800213/posts/default/72886104363911270' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1743489496'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1326593459474800213.post-6599380113456544029</id><published>2009-09-17T22:41:19.578+01:00</published><updated>2009-09-17T22:41:19.578+01:00</updated><title type='text'>You go for it babe and to hell with what others th...</title><content type='html'>You go for it babe and to hell with what others think, it&amp;#39;s all about you and Matt :) x</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1326593459474800213/72886104363911270/comments/default/6599380113456544029'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1326593459474800213/72886104363911270/comments/default/6599380113456544029'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.seafrontdiary.com/2009/09/long-distance-relationship-fact-or.html?showComment=1253223679578#c6599380113456544029' title=''/><author><name>James</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10179478026958895981</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.seafrontdiary.com/2009/09/long-distance-relationship-fact-or.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1326593459474800213.post-72886104363911270' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1326593459474800213/posts/default/72886104363911270' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1736022526'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1326593459474800213.post-2374642666278589067</id><published>2009-09-16T20:50:56.821+01:00</published><updated>2009-09-16T20:50:56.821+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Thanks Grouse79.   We&amp;#39;ll try.</title><content type='html'>Thanks Grouse79.   We&amp;#39;ll try.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1326593459474800213/72886104363911270/comments/default/2374642666278589067'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1326593459474800213/72886104363911270/comments/default/2374642666278589067'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.seafrontdiary.com/2009/09/long-distance-relationship-fact-or.html?showComment=1253130656821#c2374642666278589067' title=''/><author><name>Jason</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04097132229638807046</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='02927441105085735107'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_fbh-eMUyKZc/SpRN3yGtOJI/AAAAAAAACGQ/NFzLAOc7hOo/S220/me.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.seafrontdiary.com/2009/09/long-distance-relationship-fact-or.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1326593459474800213.post-72886104363911270' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1326593459474800213/posts/default/72886104363911270' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1016321136'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1326593459474800213.post-5510601819241659627</id><published>2009-09-16T17:43:32.657+01:00</published><updated>2009-09-16T17:43:32.657+01:00</updated><title type='text'>I&amp;#39;d say it was a goer as you&amp;#39;ve spent time...</title><content type='html'>I&amp;#39;d say it was a goer as you&amp;#39;ve spent time in each others&amp;#39; homes and got on OK. However, I think you would need to have a plan for being together permanently and a timeline which extends not too far in the future.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1326593459474800213/72886104363911270/comments/default/5510601819241659627'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1326593459474800213/72886104363911270/comments/default/5510601819241659627'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.seafrontdiary.com/2009/09/long-distance-relationship-fact-or.html?showComment=1253119412657#c5510601819241659627' title=''/><author><name>Grouse79</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.seafrontdiary.com/2009/09/long-distance-relationship-fact-or.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1326593459474800213.post-72886104363911270' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1326593459474800213/posts/default/72886104363911270' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1279916116'/></entry></feed>
